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Hello Will,
you can simplify the menu further and get what you are looking for
with new options available in the latest version of Remote Buddy at
Preferences > Menu > Appearance & Settings.
If you want to always open the menu at its root level, that's also
just a click away in Preferences > Mapping > Global mapping: for the
menu button, simply select the action for openeing the menu at the
root level and that's it.
Setting a Behaviour as default behaviour is an advanced option (and
therefore intentionally hidden) for very special use cases and is
*not* generally recommended. You really shouldn't set this option to
anything else but "None (recommended)" - but especially not to an
application - including Front Row, as that will always mean that app
is launched.
Hope that helps.
Best regards,
Felix Schwarz