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Once I installed 1.23 version of Remote Buddy, I cannot control my Mac Mini with Apple Remote at all.
The remote itself is functional - I can see the flickering light with my phone camera, and it controls another unit just fine.
When I restart in safe mode, remote does work. In normal mode, nothing. Even when I start Front Row (manually), it doesn't respond to any buttons.
Diagnostics in CandelAir does not find anything wrong.
I tried uninstalling both RB and CandelAir - it didn't help.
I'm out of ideas.